I passionately argued, maybe possibly even threw several small tantrums but as I continued to hear this, I started to realize how true it was.

GREIF WILL NEVER END AND IT WILL CHANGE YOU.

You will wake up one day and think you’ll have to try to find that person you were before it.

That person will/can never be found.

And for a long time I didn’t think that was OK.

What is not OK is being stuck there.

I am not by any means saying that anyone should move quickly through grief. We all have our own specific and intricate ways and timelines. These are vital!

—but You KNOW…you WILL know…if you’re stuck.

Take your grief…when you’re ready…and use it!

Use it for yourself and others!

It’s the only way to give back to it what it gave you!

#Hisperfectsovereinty